"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ElStud

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Touchout said:
Elstud, I don't want to brag but I'm far past you in "this stuff" but I'm still doing this, I recommend you do it do, by the time you get to like week 3 and 4 it's all about getting numbers and setting up dates.
You probably are, but that doesn't change the fact that I'm just trying to get numbers and day 2's right now. I only go to the mall once and a while and I wouldn't want to be slown down any more than I already am. I know I can converse with people, I know I can go up to women, this would kind of slow me down unless we started at like week 5 or something. Just doing "Hi"'s and eye contacting people wouldn't even being challenge. And I can already start conversations which really doesn't help because rapport doesn't matter until she's attracted.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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navyseal2101

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Yea i'm past this too, but i'm still starting from the beggining. If anything it will improve your basic skills, so it's not a bad thing.
 

Touchout

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ElStud said:
You probably are, but that doesn't change the fact that I'm just trying to get numbers and day 2's right now. I only go to the mall once and a while and I wouldn't want to be slown down any more than I already am. I know I can converse with people, I know I can go up to women, this would kind of slow me down unless we started at like week 5 or something. Just doing "Hi"'s and eye contacting people wouldn't even being challenge. And I can already start conversations which really doesn't help because rapport doesn't matter until she's attracted.

Yes, I understand where your coming from and it is entirely your choice, but even on weeks 1 & 2 you can go farther than just hi's and conversations, as far as I know there is no rule against that. Just something to think about, look at the journal of that one guy who finished it (he got to like week 8 where he started making up his own goals because there was nothing left), look at the change he was able to make. Personally, that's what I'm looking for, to have a constant supply of women to date and ****, at least for the summer. But hey, as long as your going out and trying to improve I guess your doing better than the majority of people here.
 

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I can't edit my first post for some odd reason but I know you guys are good to go. ElStud most of us are way past getting our confidence up so this is more for fun. Due to me having to work extremely long days until Monday I'll be starting Monday but you guys can start tomorrow if you want. I'll be starting a new thread on Monday for everyone to post their results so far.

Thanks
 

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ItWasntMe said:
I'll be starting a new thread on Monday for everyone to post their results so far.

Thanks
Once you make the thread, PM a HS mod (me, Vincent, mpimpin, or Plec07) and we will stick the thread.

One minor note for people reading this: You may NOT post your own journal outside of that thread. We don't want or need 15 different journals taking over the forum. Sign up now so you can post in that thread.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GaryUranga said:
k but my bootcamp starts monday
That's perfectly fine. Post your results at the end of every week (since you're starting on a Monday you'll be posting every Sunday) and possibly midweek if you wish to share an experience or if you're way ahead in your exercise and you just want to brag lol.


Virtual tyvm I'll pm all 4 of you and whomever stickies it first, well... just gets to be proud of stickying it lol.


Thank you all so far whom have joined. Remember I'll be posting the log thread on Monday.
 

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Quick question, why are we giving our MSN and AIM's?

Are we gonna have weekly discussions or something? Or is it just so we have each others.

Thanks and good luck everyone.
 

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Supremo said:
Quick question, why are we giving our MSN and AIM's?

Are we gonna have weekly discussions or something? Or is it just so we have each others.

Thanks and good luck everyone.
Just creating more of a connection between people doing this instead of just the forums. Plus we don't want to spam up the forums accidentally with irrelevant conversations that can be held over msn. I also find that msn is also a bit more convenient than the forums. You don't have to if you don't want to.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hey, I've been looking for something like this. My msn is [email protected] . I just totally stuffed up with a girl, that I thought I loved, so I am totally up for the bootcamp
 

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Tonight im going out for a few hours to a shopping center. My goal is 20 Hi's. UPDATE: Not one HB was there. Mabye I picked a bad spot.
 
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Got another Hi, but it sparked a convo and a potential relationship. I got contact info and such, so it was a success.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Virtual tyvm I'll pm all 4 of you and whomever stickies it first said:
Monday[/B].

Well looks like I lose that race...I'll be driving from OH to AL all day Monday
 

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Count me in, although in 2 weeks I will be visiting France and Italy (what better place to practice than in a foreign country with hundreds of beautiful girls u might never see again...) so my posts will probably be around 2 am this time...

[email protected]
 

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Any word on our thread?
 
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well I find lookign at random ppl ok but saying his is a bit off, have had lots of eye contact today, no probs with eye contact for me, only had a couple occassions when I looked away becaus eI wasnt being concious of my eye contact but overall 95% of it was easy they always looked away first, as for the his I made eye contact with 1 lady and said hi cause she smiled, a pretty hot lady :p so 1/50 his, I'll get lots tomorrow pushing my confort zone
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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