"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ Boot Camp - Anyone else want to try it with me

ItWasntMe

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Has anyone else not done the DJ Boot Camp that want to do it at the same time with me and then we compare results and whatnot? I found a link to it this morning while I was looking through the DJ bible and was wondering if anyone else is interested in doing it at the same time as me. I'm actually already pretty good with girls but I saw it and said why the hell not so it's more out of curiosity than anything else.

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GaryUranga - [email protected]
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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navyseal2101

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I was actually looking to do it too, so thats 2 of us.
 

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I would like to try, but I tried before and only did half the eye contact exercise, I'll try again though, we can encourage each other
 

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me? just turned 17
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ItWasntMe

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I turned 16 in April and stumbled onto this site yesterday lol.
 

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we'll support each other and show each other our results (I suppose). We'll leave this open for a day or 2 to see who else wants to join and then tomorrow or wed. we'll start day 1 of week 1. Sound good?
 

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I started a list at the top of the thread. Those of you who'd like to join leave your msn addresses and I'll add you to the list. If a mod agrees perhaps we can have a log stickied that we can all contribute to as time goes on. Hopefully we'll have something like 10+ people doing this all at once so we can all support each other (we're already at 4 :) ). As long as you're in the 14-18 range you're good to go because we're all relatively in the same boat situation-wise (high school students with the summer off). If you're interested leave your msn. I'll be on msn later so we can get this whole thing set up. If anyone needs to contact me about anything them pm me or add me on msn [email protected]. I'm not on right now but will be later tonight.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I see you paintball, what marker do you have?
 

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I used to have a spyder imagine select but my capacitor broke so now it only fires half the time. I need a new marker but I only have so much money. Soon I'm going to need to pay car or motorcycle insurance as well as paying for my CASI (canadian association of snowboard instructors) level 2 course in the winter. I'm getting a job in construction though so once I make some money I'll go gun shopping.
 

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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navyseal2101

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Have your eye on anything in particular? Im saving for an 06 Cyborg.
 

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I'll be happy to sticky a log if you get enough people. I'll need to talk to the other mods first to make sure but I don't really see why not. As long as it doesn't become something stupid.
 

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I always end up quitting after the conversation thing. I'll try this again, but not during summer. I can't get out of the house, except when my parents take me to hang out with friends.
 

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Navy - The Spyder MR3 electronic seems ok. It has a lower bps than the 06 or 07 Cyborg (couldn't find the 06 online, only the 07) and fires at 25 bps but I personally don't use a lot of paintballs when I play. I have a very accurate shot so the most I ever need is 3 for one person. 8bps won't make too much of a difference if I'm giving support fire and even 25bps consumes the whole hopper in 8 seconds. Not to mention that the MR3 just looks plain sexy lol. On a side note can you use msn with your yahoo address? The majority of the people who have agreed to join use msn and we wouldn't want anyone feeling left out :).

Plec - Thank you very much for your support. Hopefully people will take this a bit seriously and I'll do my best to make sure that this doesn't end up being stupid and a waste of time (creating the public log that is).

Bling - It's a shame you can't join us but I look forward to cheering you on when you do start

Gary - Welcome aboard. I'll add your name to the list after this post
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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