"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ Boot Camp - Anyone else want to try it with me

ItWasntMe

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Has anyone else not done the DJ Boot Camp that want to do it at the same time with me and then we compare results and whatnot? I found a link to it this morning while I was looking through the DJ bible and was wondering if anyone else is interested in doing it at the same time as me. I'm actually already pretty good with girls but I saw it and said why the hell not so it's more out of curiosity than anything else.

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ItWasntMe - [email protected]
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Bryce556 - [email protected]
GaryUranga - [email protected]
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was actually looking to do it too, so thats 2 of us.
 

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I would like to try, but I tried before and only did half the eye contact exercise, I'll try again though, we can encourage each other
 

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me? just turned 17
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ItWasntMe

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I turned 16 in April and stumbled onto this site yesterday lol.
 

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we'll support each other and show each other our results (I suppose). We'll leave this open for a day or 2 to see who else wants to join and then tomorrow or wed. we'll start day 1 of week 1. Sound good?
 

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I started a list at the top of the thread. Those of you who'd like to join leave your msn addresses and I'll add you to the list. If a mod agrees perhaps we can have a log stickied that we can all contribute to as time goes on. Hopefully we'll have something like 10+ people doing this all at once so we can all support each other (we're already at 4 :) ). As long as you're in the 14-18 range you're good to go because we're all relatively in the same boat situation-wise (high school students with the summer off). If you're interested leave your msn. I'll be on msn later so we can get this whole thing set up. If anyone needs to contact me about anything them pm me or add me on msn [email protected]. I'm not on right now but will be later tonight.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I see you paintball, what marker do you have?
 

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I used to have a spyder imagine select but my capacitor broke so now it only fires half the time. I need a new marker but I only have so much money. Soon I'm going to need to pay car or motorcycle insurance as well as paying for my CASI (canadian association of snowboard instructors) level 2 course in the winter. I'm getting a job in construction though so once I make some money I'll go gun shopping.
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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navyseal2101

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Have your eye on anything in particular? Im saving for an 06 Cyborg.
 

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I'll be happy to sticky a log if you get enough people. I'll need to talk to the other mods first to make sure but I don't really see why not. As long as it doesn't become something stupid.
 

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I always end up quitting after the conversation thing. I'll try this again, but not during summer. I can't get out of the house, except when my parents take me to hang out with friends.
 

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Navy - The Spyder MR3 electronic seems ok. It has a lower bps than the 06 or 07 Cyborg (couldn't find the 06 online, only the 07) and fires at 25 bps but I personally don't use a lot of paintballs when I play. I have a very accurate shot so the most I ever need is 3 for one person. 8bps won't make too much of a difference if I'm giving support fire and even 25bps consumes the whole hopper in 8 seconds. Not to mention that the MR3 just looks plain sexy lol. On a side note can you use msn with your yahoo address? The majority of the people who have agreed to join use msn and we wouldn't want anyone feeling left out :).

Plec - Thank you very much for your support. Hopefully people will take this a bit seriously and I'll do my best to make sure that this doesn't end up being stupid and a waste of time (creating the public log that is).

Bling - It's a shame you can't join us but I look forward to cheering you on when you do start

Gary - Welcome aboard. I'll add your name to the list after this post
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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