"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ Blueprint

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During my first couple months at this site I learned alot becoming the person I wanted to be. There were so many aspects of my life that I needed to improve/fill in that it was tough to keep up with everything and implement everything that I wanted in my life. As time passed I began to realize that in order to maintain consistency in the areas that I wanted improvement in I needed some kind of system. So, I went to work on this blueprint of self improvement and was able to improve many different areas in my life that were being left behind. I don't care if you think this is corny or whatever, this is how I was able to make the improvements that I needed. The goal of the blueprint is to demolish ALL of your flaws that you have control over, while building the life that you want. Write this down on a piece of paper or keep it in a .txt file on your computer that you can easily access.





The DJ Blueprint

Make a list of every flaw in yourself, even the small ones. This is actually the most important part of the blueprint. Use this list to fill out the blueprint.


A) Passions-
List all areas that you consider interesting or a current passion. This basically is a list of things to do in your free time. Really try hard to think of everything you wish you were doing with your free time and try to always be working in some area to improve in the given area. Add/Drop passions as you see fit, the key is to gain experience in many different areas so you can work towards the ones that you really enjoy. My hope is to eventually make a career out of one of these.

examples-

my future
music
traveling
money
basketball
martial arts
cars
magic


B) Daily To-Do List
List things you should do everyday, refer to your list of flaws.

examples-

Gym
Tan
Higene
Voice exercises
Study DJ bible

C) To-Don't List
List all things which you should stop doing in order to be the person you want to be. Use your list of flaws as a guide. All badhabits should be included. Use this as a reminder.

examples-

Watching TV
Drugs
Cigarettes
Overeating
Masturbating

This will ensure that you are improving in every area that you need to improve in so that you can be the person that you want to be.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dice

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atleast it got alot of views
 
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