"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJ Blueprint

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During my first couple months at this site I learned alot becoming the person I wanted to be. There were so many aspects of my life that I needed to improve/fill in that it was tough to keep up with everything and implement everything that I wanted in my life. As time passed I began to realize that in order to maintain consistency in the areas that I wanted improvement in I needed some kind of system. So, I went to work on this blueprint of self improvement and was able to improve many different areas in my life that were being left behind. I don't care if you think this is corny or whatever, this is how I was able to make the improvements that I needed. The goal of the blueprint is to demolish ALL of your flaws that you have control over, while building the life that you want. Write this down on a piece of paper or keep it in a .txt file on your computer that you can easily access.





The DJ Blueprint

Make a list of every flaw in yourself, even the small ones. This is actually the most important part of the blueprint. Use this list to fill out the blueprint.


A) Passions-
List all areas that you consider interesting or a current passion. This basically is a list of things to do in your free time. Really try hard to think of everything you wish you were doing with your free time and try to always be working in some area to improve in the given area. Add/Drop passions as you see fit, the key is to gain experience in many different areas so you can work towards the ones that you really enjoy. My hope is to eventually make a career out of one of these.

examples-

my future
music
traveling
money
basketball
martial arts
cars
magic


B) Daily To-Do List
List things you should do everyday, refer to your list of flaws.

examples-

Gym
Tan
Higene
Voice exercises
Study DJ bible

C) To-Don't List
List all things which you should stop doing in order to be the person you want to be. Use your list of flaws as a guide. All badhabits should be included. Use this as a reminder.

examples-

Watching TV
Drugs
Cigarettes
Overeating
Masturbating

This will ensure that you are improving in every area that you need to improve in so that you can be the person that you want to be.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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atleast it got alot of views
 
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