I'm doing the DJ bible, this thing is great. I've become much more outgoing and strong in the past few weeks. I had a question. In the 2nd week it says to go and converse with 10 strangers. The question is, where? On the street you pass by ppl, doesn't happen. I guess when you're in somewhere, like the train or bus. Or maybe a restaurant. Places like that? Did anyone here make a special outing to the mall or something just to do it? Also, I read, which I think is a good idea, is to catch her eyes first and smile, to see if you can approach. Any other tips or suggestions I'd appreciate.
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
DJ Bible - Where to meet people to talk with?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Best bet is to meet women in places where women with the specific qualities you are looking for hang out. Unless you don't care about the type of women you meet, you should go to specific places. t makes even more sense if you go to places where YOU feel comfortable too.
As for eye contact I've learned something over the past couple of weeks that seems far fetched but actually holds true. After making eye contact keep looking at her after she looks away. If she looks back within 45 seconds, there is some type of interest level. I sh1t you not!
I learned this while in Europe during the last couple of weeks of hanging out with stereotypical Don Juans. I tried it there and it held true. I just got back this week and will test it on stateside women this weekend.
As for eye contact I've learned something over the past couple of weeks that seems far fetched but actually holds true. After making eye contact keep looking at her after she looks away. If she looks back within 45 seconds, there is some type of interest level. I sh1t you not!
I learned this while in Europe during the last couple of weeks of hanging out with stereotypical Don Juans. I tried it there and it held true. I just got back this week and will test it on stateside women this weekend.
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That eye contact tip is gold.
Thanks Mr. Francisco d'Anconia.
To add to that, here's something that I learned about eye contact.
Never dart back and forth rapidly between focusing on her left or right eye. It makes you look nervous.
Instead focus on just her left eye for a good 45 secs then smoothly move over to the right eye and focus on that one for a good 45 seconds. You will appear relaxed and calm.
Thanks Mr. Francisco d'Anconia.
To add to that, here's something that I learned about eye contact.
Never dart back and forth rapidly between focusing on her left or right eye. It makes you look nervous.
Instead focus on just her left eye for a good 45 secs then smoothly move over to the right eye and focus on that one for a good 45 seconds. You will appear relaxed and calm.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
diablo
Master Don Juan
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