I'm doing the DJ bible, this thing is great. I've become much more outgoing and strong in the past few weeks. I had a question. In the 2nd week it says to go and converse with 10 strangers. The question is, where? On the street you pass by ppl, doesn't happen. I guess when you're in somewhere, like the train or bus. Or maybe a restaurant. Places like that? Did anyone here make a special outing to the mall or something just to do it? Also, I read, which I think is a good idea, is to catch her eyes first and smile, to see if you can approach. Any other tips or suggestions I'd appreciate.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DJ Bible - Where to meet people to talk with?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Best bet is to meet women in places where women with the specific qualities you are looking for hang out. Unless you don't care about the type of women you meet, you should go to specific places. t makes even more sense if you go to places where YOU feel comfortable too.
As for eye contact I've learned something over the past couple of weeks that seems far fetched but actually holds true. After making eye contact keep looking at her after she looks away. If she looks back within 45 seconds, there is some type of interest level. I sh1t you not!
I learned this while in Europe during the last couple of weeks of hanging out with stereotypical Don Juans. I tried it there and it held true. I just got back this week and will test it on stateside women this weekend.
As for eye contact I've learned something over the past couple of weeks that seems far fetched but actually holds true. After making eye contact keep looking at her after she looks away. If she looks back within 45 seconds, there is some type of interest level. I sh1t you not!
I learned this while in Europe during the last couple of weeks of hanging out with stereotypical Don Juans. I tried it there and it held true. I just got back this week and will test it on stateside women this weekend.
TDOT
Don Juan
That eye contact tip is gold.
Thanks Mr. Francisco d'Anconia.
To add to that, here's something that I learned about eye contact.
Never dart back and forth rapidly between focusing on her left or right eye. It makes you look nervous.
Instead focus on just her left eye for a good 45 secs then smoothly move over to the right eye and focus on that one for a good 45 seconds. You will appear relaxed and calm.
Thanks Mr. Francisco d'Anconia.
To add to that, here's something that I learned about eye contact.
Never dart back and forth rapidly between focusing on her left or right eye. It makes you look nervous.
Instead focus on just her left eye for a good 45 secs then smoothly move over to the right eye and focus on that one for a good 45 seconds. You will appear relaxed and calm.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
diablo
Master Don Juan
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