"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ Bible needs a glossary of terms

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Bonhomme

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After seeing the umpteenth newbie ripped apart for asking what an AFC is or what kino is, I decided to play the part of a newbie, and read the Bible to find out the definitions for those terms.

And you know what? They weren't very easy to find!

So, let's get a *glossary* going, and put it in the DJ Bible. Or right on top of the Forums page.

To make it easy to do, I suggest we start from a post on the main DJ discussion forum, and just have people add terms, so we could have a "thread of definitions."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ther's one in the HSDJB... and its no big deal, just put it in the end of the bible where a glossary would go in a book, and leave it at that...

NEO, I luv ya baby, just saw the link to HSDJB in the DJ BIBLE... hehe.

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Yeah. Just copy & paste it from the HS DJ Bible into the regular DJ Bible. I say put it right on top!

But why would adults check out the HS DJ Bible anyway? Haven't gone there.
 
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Originally posted by Bonhomme:
Yeah. Just copy & paste it from the HS DJ Bible into the regular DJ Bible. I say put it right on top!

But why would adults check out the HS DJ Bible anyway? Haven't gone there.
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HSers check it...lol... I'm jsut saying there is a glossary there, you no fyi kinda deal.

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The DJ Bible ~or~ The High School Don Juan Bible

. . /} . .
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. . ) ( . .
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. ./|. . .
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“Carpe Diem."
"The little things... there's nothing bigger, is there?"
"When you are sure you know something through and through... be sure, also, that by changing your perspective, you'll know nothing at all"
 
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