"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJ Bible needs a glossary of terms

Bonhomme

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After seeing the umpteenth newbie ripped apart for asking what an AFC is or what kino is, I decided to play the part of a newbie, and read the Bible to find out the definitions for those terms.

And you know what? They weren't very easy to find!

So, let's get a *glossary* going, and put it in the DJ Bible. Or right on top of the Forums page.

To make it easy to do, I suggest we start from a post on the main DJ discussion forum, and just have people add terms, so we could have a "thread of definitions."
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lorenzo

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Ther's one in the HSDJB... and its no big deal, just put it in the end of the bible where a glossary would go in a book, and leave it at that...

NEO, I luv ya baby, just saw the link to HSDJB in the DJ BIBLE... hehe.

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Bonhomme

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Yeah. Just copy & paste it from the HS DJ Bible into the regular DJ Bible. I say put it right on top!

But why would adults check out the HS DJ Bible anyway? Haven't gone there.
 

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Originally posted by Bonhomme:
Yeah. Just copy & paste it from the HS DJ Bible into the regular DJ Bible. I say put it right on top!

But why would adults check out the HS DJ Bible anyway? Haven't gone there.
HSers check it...lol... I'm jsut saying there is a glossary there, you no fyi kinda deal.

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