"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ Bible needs a glossary of terms

Bonhomme

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After seeing the umpteenth newbie ripped apart for asking what an AFC is or what kino is, I decided to play the part of a newbie, and read the Bible to find out the definitions for those terms.

And you know what? They weren't very easy to find!

So, let's get a *glossary* going, and put it in the DJ Bible. Or right on top of the Forums page.

To make it easy to do, I suggest we start from a post on the main DJ discussion forum, and just have people add terms, so we could have a "thread of definitions."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lorenzo

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Ther's one in the HSDJB... and its no big deal, just put it in the end of the bible where a glossary would go in a book, and leave it at that...

NEO, I luv ya baby, just saw the link to HSDJB in the DJ BIBLE... hehe.

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Bonhomme

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Yeah. Just copy & paste it from the HS DJ Bible into the regular DJ Bible. I say put it right on top!

But why would adults check out the HS DJ Bible anyway? Haven't gone there.
 

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Originally posted by Bonhomme:
Yeah. Just copy & paste it from the HS DJ Bible into the regular DJ Bible. I say put it right on top!

But why would adults check out the HS DJ Bible anyway? Haven't gone there.
HSers check it...lol... I'm jsut saying there is a glossary there, you no fyi kinda deal.

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