"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ Bible Is Now Working (with an update!)

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The problem was pretty straight forward to repair. On top of fixing the links, I also added some new things. I generally don't like adding things to the Bible since it's already big enough, but occasionally a post is either top notch or the subject hasn't been touched on. Seduction methods continue to evolve (although much slower these days) and the rise of MGTOW has brought about some important subjects. There are also areas in the Bible that can use a bit more expansion.

Here's a list of the changes. Enjoy!

Newly Added:

Social Media Red-flags
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=218223
status: added to "Women To Avoid"

Going Viral
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=215514
status: Added to "Uplifting Material"

Advice from Father/Grandfather
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=205815
status: Added to "Uplifting Material"

Boundary Implementation
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/boundary-implementation.218036/
status: Added to Long Term Relationships

How to implement boundaries effectively
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/how-to-implement-boundaries-effectively.215271/
status: Added to Long Term Relationships

A Simple Thank You
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=2244011&posted=1#post2244011
status: Added to "Testimonials & Experiences"

**To all the Newbies, Heart Brokens and Hardcase Believers - Trust the Users Wisdom**
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210846
status: added to "Testimonials & Experiences"


Logged but rejected (at least this time around):

Using Facebook and other Tactics to discern quality/loyalty in an LTR
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210879
status: not added - too many opposers


Fixed link:
The Writer - How To Be Happy
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/how-to-be-happy.16775/#post-135999


Download Added:
Anti-Dump's Machine PDF
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey what does it take for a guy like me to get in the DJ Bible lol?

Also other guys like Poon King should be in there as well. We both represent sort of a different mentality that's been implemented around here, focused mainly on getting guys to understand the BIG PICTURE when it comes to the market as a whole, which will serve to assist guys with understanding the issues they deal with on a "micro" or individualized level.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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