"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ Bible Is Now Working (with an update!)

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The problem was pretty straight forward to repair. On top of fixing the links, I also added some new things. I generally don't like adding things to the Bible since it's already big enough, but occasionally a post is either top notch or the subject hasn't been touched on. Seduction methods continue to evolve (although much slower these days) and the rise of MGTOW has brought about some important subjects. There are also areas in the Bible that can use a bit more expansion.

Here's a list of the changes. Enjoy!

Newly Added:

Social Media Red-flags
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=218223
status: added to "Women To Avoid"

Going Viral
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=215514
status: Added to "Uplifting Material"

Advice from Father/Grandfather
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=205815
status: Added to "Uplifting Material"

Boundary Implementation
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/boundary-implementation.218036/
status: Added to Long Term Relationships

How to implement boundaries effectively
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/how-to-implement-boundaries-effectively.215271/
status: Added to Long Term Relationships

A Simple Thank You
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=2244011&posted=1#post2244011
status: Added to "Testimonials & Experiences"

**To all the Newbies, Heart Brokens and Hardcase Believers - Trust the Users Wisdom**
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210846
status: added to "Testimonials & Experiences"


Logged but rejected (at least this time around):

Using Facebook and other Tactics to discern quality/loyalty in an LTR
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210879
status: not added - too many opposers


Fixed link:
The Writer - How To Be Happy
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/how-to-be-happy.16775/#post-135999


Download Added:
Anti-Dump's Machine PDF
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey what does it take for a guy like me to get in the DJ Bible lol?

Also other guys like Poon King should be in there as well. We both represent sort of a different mentality that's been implemented around here, focused mainly on getting guys to understand the BIG PICTURE when it comes to the market as a whole, which will serve to assist guys with understanding the issues they deal with on a "micro" or individualized level.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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