"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just have to say ever since stepping out of the "Nice Guy" mindset and into a Don Juan my dating life has increased 450%. This stuff is powerful. Im an ordinary decent looking guy but I always had a problem getting girls on a night out through my own incompetence but ever since reading the DJ Bible everything changed. Instead of going up to girls to see if she was interested (& f***ing it up)etc. It just became primal.

In the past 2 weeks since reading the DJ Bible I have had girls suddenly maul me, girls begging me to take their numbers and girls initiating with me left right and centre.

Now my only problem is I feel Im becoming a little arrogant here. Going from sudden dryness to wet is getting to my head. Any advice on how to scale back the arrogance? (This seems like a strange question)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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seriously it just came naturally. It was always there Im guessing just covered with a load of ****.
 
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Well, I've had a lot of success lately. But I got bored, so that's all there is to toning down the arrogance. Just get bored.
 
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Yeah I suppose but it feels Im just going from one end of the scale to the other not actually enjoying the interactions for what they are but just seeing them as stepping stones. Il try the boredom so.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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when you wake up tomorow morning think of 3 things you dont like about yourself, lmao
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Too bad the Dj Bible does not help us get good women who are worth pursuing for more than sex
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For that, search and read Anti-Dump's posts and also Doc Love's articles on sosuave and askmen.

You hit a big nail on the head. The thing with so many guys here, especially the younger ones, is that the aim is to get sex, and in a way, it's fool's gold.

Sex is not the aim really. The goal is to find a great woman. Without that, you can have sex with drama queens, psychos, angry women, controlling women, women with major problems, users, takers, and those who will disrespect you, leave you and/or cheat on you.

But when you come across a keeper, and know how to recognize her potential and know how to keep her... great sex is a given. Comes with the package.

It's not the goal.
 
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