"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJ Bible is good (too good)

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I just have to say ever since stepping out of the "Nice Guy" mindset and into a Don Juan my dating life has increased 450%. This stuff is powerful. Im an ordinary decent looking guy but I always had a problem getting girls on a night out through my own incompetence but ever since reading the DJ Bible everything changed. Instead of going up to girls to see if she was interested (& f***ing it up)etc. It just became primal.

In the past 2 weeks since reading the DJ Bible I have had girls suddenly maul me, girls begging me to take their numbers and girls initiating with me left right and centre.

Now my only problem is I feel Im becoming a little arrogant here. Going from sudden dryness to wet is getting to my head. Any advice on how to scale back the arrogance? (This seems like a strange question)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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seriously it just came naturally. It was always there Im guessing just covered with a load of ****.
 

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Well, I've had a lot of success lately. But I got bored, so that's all there is to toning down the arrogance. Just get bored.
 

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Yeah I suppose but it feels Im just going from one end of the scale to the other not actually enjoying the interactions for what they are but just seeing them as stepping stones. Il try the boredom so.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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when you wake up tomorow morning think of 3 things you dont like about yourself, lmao
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Too bad the Dj Bible does not help us get good women who are worth pursuing for more than sex
For that, search and read Anti-Dump's posts and also Doc Love's articles on sosuave and askmen.

You hit a big nail on the head. The thing with so many guys here, especially the younger ones, is that the aim is to get sex, and in a way, it's fool's gold.

Sex is not the aim really. The goal is to find a great woman. Without that, you can have sex with drama queens, psychos, angry women, controlling women, women with major problems, users, takers, and those who will disrespect you, leave you and/or cheat on you.

But when you come across a keeper, and know how to recognize her potential and know how to keep her... great sex is a given. Comes with the package.

It's not the goal.
 
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