"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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EDIT: The DJ Bible is temporarily located here:

www.trappedtime.com/djb

It will be back in it's normal place sometime either late Tuesday or early Wednesday.

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Just letting everyone know that the DJ Bible will be temporarily down while I attempt to find out why my domain name has expired. To make a long story short, it seems as though it expired practically overnight and was subsequently picked up by a registrar who wants $200 to get it back. I do have several other domains that I can shift all of the files to, so this outage shouldn't be anything more than temporary.

Thank you.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HAHA, hacked, lol..

It might of been just that time for renewal, email address change...so you never got the notification or anything...meh

I'd just switch it to a new domain...why not even the SS.com domain??
 

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Hurry! Limited time offer! Place no money down, shipping will take 6 to 8 weeks. COD orders preferred. No refunds or exchanges allowed. Acceptance based on credit approval, interest rate depends on situation incurred. We reserve the right to remove any liabilities for unsatisfactory results from use of product. Made in China.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Update: The site expired because the credit card I had on file with the original registrar had also expired. I've updated the card, they've done their thing, and it should be back up in a few hours.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
dreamxhenry hacked it maybe?
Haven't heard of dreamxhenry in a while. I have the feeling he is still hanging around with another pseudo name, although he go suspended....
 

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While the site has been down, I've transferred all of the material to my mirror domain: trappedtime.com

You can access it via nick's mirror or here:

www.trappedtime.com/djb

JBSpencer.com should be back up and running sometime tomorrow (the nameserver had to propogate to something or other, I don't pretend to understand it just so long as it works...)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Desdinova said:
Worldwide male development has temporarily been put on hold. Sorry for the inconvenience.
Because the Male Bible's been stolen. Aaah!
God, SS's so pathetic.
 
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