"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DJ/Alpha qualities you had before sosuave?

lYlasTer

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So after discovering the DJ Bible every AFC goes and tries to change himself more into the ideal Alpha man or a DJ. I'm just wondering what traits you guys already had before all this that helped.

Mine:

Body - I worked out religiously just because I got tired of being skinny.

Humour - Making people laugh was always a strong trait of mine. I was already using ****y+funny and teasing in a good way before I discovered it was a concept/

Some others but these are the ones that pop up in my head at the moment.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GloriouslyInsane

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c+f mostly,and i was kinda on the extreme side of hairstyle/fashion (i stand out in a good way).
 

Socialreject

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Most of the inner game stuff, though i did doubt myself at times (noone around to confirm my beliefs).

Before i read ANY kind of material, my clothing and hairstyle was less up to date. I also started working out more vigorously, but i made the decision to do that for myself before i ever read any material.

I've gotten a better insight into "chick logic" and some of the things women do actually make sense to me now ;-)
 
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