"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ/Alpha qualities you had before sosuave?

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lYlasTer

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So after discovering the DJ Bible every AFC goes and tries to change himself more into the ideal Alpha man or a DJ. I'm just wondering what traits you guys already had before all this that helped.

Mine:

Body - I worked out religiously just because I got tired of being skinny.

Humour - Making people laugh was always a strong trait of mine. I was already using ****y+funny and teasing in a good way before I discovered it was a concept/

Some others but these are the ones that pop up in my head at the moment.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GloriouslyInsane

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c+f mostly,and i was kinda on the extreme side of hairstyle/fashion (i stand out in a good way).
 
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Socialreject

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Most of the inner game stuff, though i did doubt myself at times (noone around to confirm my beliefs).

Before i read ANY kind of material, my clothing and hairstyle was less up to date. I also started working out more vigorously, but i made the decision to do that for myself before i ever read any material.

I've gotten a better insight into "chick logic" and some of the things women do actually make sense to me now ;-)
 
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