DJ advice PLZ, married man/woman

[H34T533K3R]

Hello all first post here, been a lurker for a while though. Seeking advice from experienced DJS!! thanks in advance

so im 24 & married and where i work there is an older woman, close to 40 also married, we openly talk about our lives and what not. so anyways this lady has the body of a godess, shes been pretty much working out since high school, I want to make a move on her but not sure how. we smile and joke with each other, ocasionaly tap each other or poke each other, anyways I complimented her told her she looked amazing and she seemed to like it.

My question is, whats a good way to either ask or see if she would be willing to start a little "fling". Just looking advice for how to approach her I guess. Please excuse the poor grammer. Any tips/advice appreciated. Thanks

 

[Sinistar]

Lock it (underage poster, seeking advice to wreck two marriages, probably a troll)

 

[Ever onward]

Well dude why do you want to cheat? Are you unhappy with your marriage?

 

[H34T533K3R]

lol im not trying to wreck marriages, of course i wont get caught. Anyways I thought DJ's were womanizers. Maybe i was wrong.

Honestly is cheating really frowned upon here? Its no big deal everyone does it. And I thought this forum was for help with women, not love/marriage counseling. Im planning on sticking with my girl regardless

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

lol im not trying to wreck marriages, of course i wont get caught. Anyways I thought DJ's were womanizers. Maybe i was wrong.

Honestly is cheating really frowned upon here? Its no big deal everyone does it. And I thought this forum was for help with women, not love/marriage counseling. Im planning on sticking with my girl regardless

Alright, I've gotta ask...

1. If you want to cheat, why did you get married?
2. Since you're married and plan on sticking with your "girl" (not "wife"), why do you want to cheat?

 

[L B]

You're an adult in an adult relationship. You took your marriage vows, honor it.

 

[DJ1234]

lol im not trying to wreck marriages, of course i wont get caught. Anyways I thought DJ's were womanizers. Maybe i was wrong.

Honestly is cheating really frowned upon here? Its no big deal everyone does it. And I thought this forum was for help with women, not love/marriage counseling. Im planning on sticking with my girl regardless

:nono: Sorry but I think cheating is probably one of the worst things you can do esp. when you're married, and no not everyone does it.
I don't cheat...You know I hope you get caught and get a divorce then it screws up your life...
theres a reason why you get married and obviously you didn't get married for the right ones if you're just going to be a womanizer.
Exactly why did you get married anyway?
How would you feel if you're wife was thinking/doing the same as you're thinking of doing right now?...but fortunately I don't give a **** its your marriage and if tapping some old broad is worth Jeopardizing then go for it...

 

[ValleyDJing]

Exactly why did you get married anyway?

Thats the real question. You gave up a life of screwing different chicks every week, to having to listen to the same woman nag, day in and day out, and you get to give away half your stuff. Cool.

 

[ValleyDJing]

How would you feel if you're wife was thinking/doing the same as you're thinking of doing right now?

Newsflash dude...she probably already is.

 

[DJ1234]

Newsflash dude...she probably already is.

then in that case, I say go for it...if she's doin it and its mutual then I guess its ok....