“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BillyPilgrim

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OP, make sure she comes to your place since you went to hers twice. Have a ready made excuse to kick her out the next day if you bang but aren't feeling like spending the whole day with her. She will likely view your time as expendable, since it appears she case some MPS (Magic Pu$$y Syndrome) or neurosis issues and will feel entitled to wasting as much of your time as she wants as payment for her pu$$y. Except her to bring a stay the night bag, and don't be surprised if she leaves it in her car to spring it on you later.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Slowhandluke said:
What if I told you the girl you are dating is using you only for your money? Is that a negative or a positive? I can see both sides but I feel that it's not a good thing.
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That would be a negative. Last time I checked, both people receive something during sex. If she's blowing your money, I do not see how that works for both parties.
 
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RickTheToad said:
That would be a negative. Last time I checked, both people receive something during sex. If she's blowing your money, I do not see how that works for both parties.
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I guess it depends on what she's blowing your money on. Lingerie that she shows off for you every night would be nice.
 
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RickTheToad said:
That would be a negative. Last time I checked, both people receive something during sex. If she's blowing your money, I do not see how that works for both parties.
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A hot girl who dates an average (or ugly) guy because of his money: Obviously, the guy will enjoy just being around her.. and the sex... the hot girl might or might not enjoy the sex; hell, she might not even enjoy being around him. however, she will enjoy the money due to the fact that she agreed to go out with him in the first place BECAUSE of the money (which basically entails all the nice things that he buys for her, the cars she gets to drive, the places she can go vacation at, etc.. etc.. ).

At the end of the day, it does "work for both parties". They are both getting something out of it. However, the hot girl is dating the guy just for the money and not because she cares for the guy. The OP is basically using the divorced mom for sex, not necessarily that he cares for her...

People can do whatever they want. I don't care for the morals of it all. But to me, the situation is about the same. People are adults, and they do whatever they want to do. I'm sure the guys that have money understands this... and I'm sure the divorced mom also understands this.

Sooo yeah.. .have at it; but don't try and make it seem like the situations are different. They aren't.
 
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Slowhandluke said:
A hot girl who dates an average (or ugly) guy because of his money: Obviously, the guy will enjoy just being around her.. and the sex... the hot girl might or might not enjoy the sex; hell, she might not even enjoy being around him. however, she will enjoy the money due to the fact that she agreed to go out with him in the first place BECAUSE of the money (which basically entails all the nice things that he buys for her, the cars she gets to drive, the places she can go vacation at, etc.. etc.. ).

At the end of the day, it does "work for both parties". They are both getting something out of it. However, the hot girl is dating the guy just for the money and not because she cares for the guy. The OP is basically using the divorced mom for sex, not necessarily that he cares for her...

People can do whatever they want. I don't care for the morals of it all. But to me, the situation is about the same. People are adults, and they do whatever they want to do. I'm sure the guys that have money understands this... and I'm sure the divorced mom also understands this.

Sooo yeah.. .have at it; but don't try and make it seem like the situations are different. They aren't.
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Maybe that's your experience, it hasn't been mine.
 
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Girls only use you for money if you allow that to be so.
 
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