"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Divorced mature men...the new Prize?

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bigjohnson said:
In reality a lot of it also has to do with how badly wounded his finances are. The article was carefully limited to men who "escaped" (that makes me laugh) relatively unscathed financially and we assume, emotionally.
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Exactly.

They limited to a group of men that happen to be divorced (but escaped unscratched) and happen to have some level of wealth/high_salary.

Would I rather be married for 5 years to a cheating psycho that takes 50% of my net worth after the divorce OR never being married? The answer is simple: never being married.

However, would I rather “never being married” or formerly married that escaped unscratched and happen to have some level of wealth? It doesn’t matter in this case.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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