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[danro]

Alright, I've been dating this girl for about 2 or 3 weeks. This is our second time dating. Lately she has become kind of distant, she still talks with me and everything but she doesnt hold hands or cuddle with me anymore. So I'm wondering is this just normal behavior for a girl at this point in a relationship or is she trying to tell me something?

 

[OfficeSpace]

Well it could be one of two things in my opinion:

* She might be shy because she has more feelings for you now.

* She might be losing interest

I think only you can answer your own question since you know her in person, while us on this forum don't. Ask yourself, how did the date go... Did you act too needy? Or did it go great, with a ton of kino, and the works?

To be honest, from what you've written it seems like she is trying to distance herself from you. If before she was cuddling and holding hands, and now after 2 dates she stopped, something is deffinitely up.

Make sure you're not acting too needy or whatever, since that can be a turn-off for a lot of girls. You can still fix things bro, it's not too late!

 

[danro]

Thanks, does anyone else have any advice?

 

[lordson]

oooo, be warey, sorry to scare you

but sudden dstance like that is a bad sign, because hse amybe losing interest

do what neon base tells you, dont act too clingy, be more of a man, make her see that you dont really give a **** if you dont ahve her and you can still get any woman you want

thats really important, you could intentioannly miss a phone call, *risky* is you want so she can miss you for a bit and be pining for you again

but i really wouldn't try that unless you know whats gotten her so weird latetly

but

i reckon, whatever is giong to happen, or whatever she is wanting to happen, is going to happen regarless of what you do

not very helpful, but thats just my comments on the situation

 

[danro]

Thanks guys. I'm doing a little bit of reverse phsycology and im starting to call her less and when hanging out in a group, flirting with other girls and not talking to her as much. I feel the way things are going we probably won't be together much long, but oh well just makes me available again.