"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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distance + interest vs wait too long

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I am struggling with a small problem with girl #2 from my previous post. (We were together a year ago once or twice, she flaked, I next, met at the bar on the weekend, and she was all over me) I am currently working about 2 hours away, but still make regular trips home. I am not planning a trip for 2 weeks though.

I want to keep her I/L up, however, I don't want to call her too much without setting something up. We already talked for over a half hour one evening, then I abruptly ended it.

Should I call to keep the I/L up or invite her up for the weekend. However she might be uncomfortable coming this far out of her way.

Any ideas?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well, did you fvck her/hook up w/ her, that is relevant info.
 
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A year ago we fvcked twiced before she flaked out, this last time at the bar, we just connected, she was too drunk but she had very high I/L. She initiated everything this time around.
 
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If you already banged her I don't even know why you are worried. You should be in easy. I wouldn't do anything except put the moves on her next time you see her, if you want.

If she wants you, 2 weeks isn't going to make it drop.
 
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