"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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distance + interest vs wait too long

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I am struggling with a small problem with girl #2 from my previous post. (We were together a year ago once or twice, she flaked, I next, met at the bar on the weekend, and she was all over me) I am currently working about 2 hours away, but still make regular trips home. I am not planning a trip for 2 weeks though.

I want to keep her I/L up, however, I don't want to call her too much without setting something up. We already talked for over a half hour one evening, then I abruptly ended it.

Should I call to keep the I/L up or invite her up for the weekend. However she might be uncomfortable coming this far out of her way.

Any ideas?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well, did you fvck her/hook up w/ her, that is relevant info.
 
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A year ago we fvcked twiced before she flaked out, this last time at the bar, we just connected, she was too drunk but she had very high I/L. She initiated everything this time around.
 
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If you already banged her I don't even know why you are worried. You should be in easy. I wouldn't do anything except put the moves on her next time you see her, if you want.

If she wants you, 2 weeks isn't going to make it drop.
 
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