"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My x gf disrespected me in the past. Cheated on me etc.

First time, she cheated, had another dude already on the side wem she broke up with me. Found out about this after.

Second we got together because she called me telling me she regret it everything. But she had the first dude on the side hiding it from me, and ontop of that she was with her other x bf at the same time. LOL

Third time, I called her like a chump because she had broken up with the x bf, but was still lying about the other dude she was ****ing. STILLL!!! wow i know.

I bet you guys right now are thinking like...WTF???

Third time we move in to live together but she's still seein the other dude, ****kking him, etc behind my back, till one day she got drunk, i found out by grabbing her phone while she knocked oouuttt drunk. Saw all the **** she was doing.. :crackup:

broke up with her cut all contact with her after that


Anywho, we have a bunch of the same mutual friends, im still cool with her sis, theres an event coming up shes going to be there, do i just say hi like nothing happened? I feel that when I see her im ma feel like killing the bish. lol how do i act around this bish after putting me through some embarrasing shisshh..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you a chump for having getting involved with her over and over after she lied and cheated on you repeatedly.

Cut her out of your life and go NC.

Being cool with her sis won't help you. I'd cut off contact with her as well but if you do communicate with her sis or your mutual friends be cordial but don't give yourself a reason to see/talk to her again. I never make it a point to contact my ex but i have bumped into her once or twice. I just acknowledge her and keep going.
 

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AAAgent said:
you a chump for having getting involved with her over and over after she lied and cheated on you repeatedly.
Exactly.

Talking about "all the things she put me through." You put yourself through it, buddy.

And as the old saying goes....the best revenge is living well. If you see your ex, say hello. Otherwise, just go out, laugh and have a good time. Your revenge will come from showing everyone how happy you are....not from screaming at your ex in public.
 

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AAAgent said:
you a chump for having getting involved with her over and over after she lied and cheated on you repeatedly.

Cut her out of your life and go NC.

Being cool with her sis won't help you. I'd cut off contact with her as well but if you do communicate with her sis or your mutual friends be cordial but don't give yourself a reason to see/talk to her again. I never make it a point to contact my ex but i have bumped into her once or twice. I just acknowledge her and keep going.
this hapen about a year ago havent spoke to her since man, shes long gone.. i still have her sis as a facebook friend i dont talk to her neither but were still cool im in good terms with her.

other than that im going to a house party this weekend and shes gonna be there.. we have the same friends literally.

should i just ignore her while im there?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Iceberg said:
Exactly.

Talking about "all the things she put me through." You put yourself through it, buddy.

And as the old saying goes....the best revenge is living well. If you see your ex, say hello. Otherwise, just go out, laugh and have a good time. Your revenge will come from showing everyone how happy you are....not from screaming at your ex in public.
yes i know man, i was stupid a super BETA/AFC.. never again

this website has teached me a lot, im not the same guy anymore..
 
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