"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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disrespectful x gf..

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My x gf disrespected me in the past. Cheated on me etc.

First time, she cheated, had another dude already on the side wem she broke up with me. Found out about this after.

Second we got together because she called me telling me she regret it everything. But she had the first dude on the side hiding it from me, and ontop of that she was with her other x bf at the same time. LOL

Third time, I called her like a chump because she had broken up with the x bf, but was still lying about the other dude she was ****ing. STILLL!!! wow i know.

I bet you guys right now are thinking like...WTF???

Third time we move in to live together but she's still seein the other dude, ****kking him, etc behind my back, till one day she got drunk, i found out by grabbing her phone while she knocked oouuttt drunk. Saw all the **** she was doing.. :crackup:

broke up with her cut all contact with her after that


Anywho, we have a bunch of the same mutual friends, im still cool with her sis, theres an event coming up shes going to be there, do i just say hi like nothing happened? I feel that when I see her im ma feel like killing the bish. lol how do i act around this bish after putting me through some embarrasing shisshh..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you a chump for having getting involved with her over and over after she lied and cheated on you repeatedly.

Cut her out of your life and go NC.

Being cool with her sis won't help you. I'd cut off contact with her as well but if you do communicate with her sis or your mutual friends be cordial but don't give yourself a reason to see/talk to her again. I never make it a point to contact my ex but i have bumped into her once or twice. I just acknowledge her and keep going.
 

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AAAgent said:
you a chump for having getting involved with her over and over after she lied and cheated on you repeatedly.
Exactly.

Talking about "all the things she put me through." You put yourself through it, buddy.

And as the old saying goes....the best revenge is living well. If you see your ex, say hello. Otherwise, just go out, laugh and have a good time. Your revenge will come from showing everyone how happy you are....not from screaming at your ex in public.
 

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AAAgent said:
you a chump for having getting involved with her over and over after she lied and cheated on you repeatedly.

Cut her out of your life and go NC.

Being cool with her sis won't help you. I'd cut off contact with her as well but if you do communicate with her sis or your mutual friends be cordial but don't give yourself a reason to see/talk to her again. I never make it a point to contact my ex but i have bumped into her once or twice. I just acknowledge her and keep going.
this hapen about a year ago havent spoke to her since man, shes long gone.. i still have her sis as a facebook friend i dont talk to her neither but were still cool im in good terms with her.

other than that im going to a house party this weekend and shes gonna be there.. we have the same friends literally.

should i just ignore her while im there?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Iceberg said:
Exactly.

Talking about "all the things she put me through." You put yourself through it, buddy.

And as the old saying goes....the best revenge is living well. If you see your ex, say hello. Otherwise, just go out, laugh and have a good time. Your revenge will come from showing everyone how happy you are....not from screaming at your ex in public.
yes i know man, i was stupid a super BETA/AFC.. never again

this website has teached me a lot, im not the same guy anymore..
 
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