"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was standing around in a circle of friends when one of them, a girl, out of the blue, for absolutley no reason, steps on my foot with malice. I immeaditley said, "You are such a b****" and gave her a little shove.

How should I have handled the situation and how should I change my interaction with her afterwards?

Revenge was the first idea, but that seems childish and low.

I want some advice that's mature, what would a real man do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well have you done anything in particular to get her mad at you? Maybe shes just a ***** who thinks she can rule everyone.
 
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Say something witty yet insulting like:

:STOMP:

you: Hey look next time just ask for the 50 bucks and I'll pay you for last night. No need to be violent
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I would be like damn you like the pain...kinky baby...
 
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aussiegoat55 said:
I was standing around in a circle of friends when one of them, a girl, out of the blue, for absolutley no reason, steps on my foot with malice. I immeaditley said, "You are such a b****" and gave her a little shove.

How should I have handled the situation and how should I change my interaction with her afterwards?

Revenge was the first idea, but that seems childish and low.

I want some advice that's mature, what would a real man do?
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"... excuse me?!" Now I think I would stare that girl down.

You defend yourself. You don't instigate by escalating the fight. Hands off, until she starts physically attacking you.

Ah, but I used to "accept everything" by default. I'd be so shocked by bad behavior I'd just do nothing. Hey, this still happens from time to time. But knowing myself as I am now, I'd be quick enough to react in some way, and not just shock myself into silence like in highschool and early college...so I could still be wrong, but to me, she isn't worth the bother if she's that immature.
 
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