"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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aussiegoat55

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I was standing around in a circle of friends when one of them, a girl, out of the blue, for absolutley no reason, steps on my foot with malice. I immeaditley said, "You are such a b****" and gave her a little shove.

How should I have handled the situation and how should I change my interaction with her afterwards?

Revenge was the first idea, but that seems childish and low.

I want some advice that's mature, what would a real man do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well have you done anything in particular to get her mad at you? Maybe shes just a ***** who thinks she can rule everyone.
 
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Say something witty yet insulting like:

:STOMP:

you: Hey look next time just ask for the 50 bucks and I'll pay you for last night. No need to be violent
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would be like damn you like the pain...kinky baby...
 
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aussiegoat55 said:
I was standing around in a circle of friends when one of them, a girl, out of the blue, for absolutley no reason, steps on my foot with malice. I immeaditley said, "You are such a b****" and gave her a little shove.

How should I have handled the situation and how should I change my interaction with her afterwards?

Revenge was the first idea, but that seems childish and low.

I want some advice that's mature, what would a real man do?
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"... excuse me?!" Now I think I would stare that girl down.

You defend yourself. You don't instigate by escalating the fight. Hands off, until she starts physically attacking you.

Ah, but I used to "accept everything" by default. I'd be so shocked by bad behavior I'd just do nothing. Hey, this still happens from time to time. But knowing myself as I am now, I'd be quick enough to react in some way, and not just shock myself into silence like in highschool and early college...so I could still be wrong, but to me, she isn't worth the bother if she's that immature.
 
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