You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ask her what are her plans for Valentines Day. Act like you are just making conversation. Be prepared to follow it up with a tentative idea if she says nothing is planned. Say "Hmmm. Pity." Then later on (a few hours, the next day) ask her out.Rebound Material said:
she's trying to be witty to maintain value so if you're having fun, just play along with the vibeRebound Material said:
I AGREE VERY MUCH! hahaha, I dunno I guess I somehow find a computer or laptop everywhere I go and end up on this site even when Im drunk. But anyways, thanks for the responses. I made some text rapport with her yesterday trying to lead up to the Valentines Date subject. I went old fashion and used a corny pick up line to break the ice.mongolboy said:LOL what a nooobjk im feelin you myan... is just ur imagination, quit gettin drunk motherfucer!
.She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What a dumb pickup line . First of all never give compliments until she earns them ( deserves them ) .Rebound Material said:ME: Hey, did it hurt?
HER: Wth?
ME: Im asking you if it hurt sweety.
HER: What hurt?
ME: When you fell from heaven
Of course its a dumb pick up line! It was meant to be cliche and my god it worked. I didnt post the whole thing, but I took the compiment away later. Its how we joke.Daddy The Pimp said: