She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ask her what are her plans for Valentines Day. Act like you are just making conversation. Be prepared to follow it up with a tentative idea if she says nothing is planned. Say "Hmmm. Pity." Then later on (a few hours, the next day) ask her out.Rebound Material said:
she's trying to be witty to maintain value so if you're having fun, just play along with the vibeRebound Material said:
I AGREE VERY MUCH! hahaha, I dunno I guess I somehow find a computer or laptop everywhere I go and end up on this site even when Im drunk. But anyways, thanks for the responses. I made some text rapport with her yesterday trying to lead up to the Valentines Date subject. I went old fashion and used a corny pick up line to break the ice.mongolboy said:LOL what a nooobjk im feelin you myan... is just ur imagination, quit gettin drunk motherfucer!
.Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What a dumb pickup line . First of all never give compliments until she earns them ( deserves them ) .Rebound Material said:ME: Hey, did it hurt?
HER: Wth?
ME: Im asking you if it hurt sweety.
HER: What hurt?
ME: When you fell from heaven
Of course its a dumb pick up line! It was meant to be cliche and my god it worked. I didnt post the whole thing, but I took the compiment away later. Its how we joke.Daddy The Pimp said: