"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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disproportionate biceps gain

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I realized that I gained an inch on my right biceps while my left remained the same. This is kind of hurting my workouts, I can lift 2-3 reps more on my right but my left arm just drops.
What shall I do?
Try to make sure that both sides get equal workout and wait for the lagging side to catch up?
Work my left side harder?
Thanks for your help
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JohnGalt

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Start all sets with your lagging arm, and let that limit the total that you do. Eventually it will catch up.
 

oprahjimfrey

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One bicep will ALMOST always be stronger than the other, that is ok. As long as you are not curling 35 with one, and only 25 with another, you will be okay. A small difference, IE ur left arm gives out b4 your right is ok.
 

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You are probably trying to lift too heavy and one arm is compensating for the other. Use dumbells, stay away from machines and even barbells until you become more symetrical. Don't do any more reps than you can do with your weakest arm.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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italostud

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Yeah a bit of asymmetry is okay. You have to be careful though. A problem I had a while ago was that my left pec was stronger than my right. Although I never really noticed it when benching. Over the years, my RIGHT tricep got stronger than my left to compensate for the weaker RIGHT pec when benching. Now I've evened out the triceps and the pecs are slowly coming around. Of course to others this is not noticable, but if you work out it will be noticable to you. Some muscle inbalances aren't problematic, some are very. Try to build a well proportioned physique. Some asymmetry is genetic, some is caused by your training. Both are treatable(to an extent).

Good lifting
 

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Originally posted by Neo
masturbate with your other hand
No, neo, bad idea. This way, he will get too large left arms. Instead, masturbate ambi-dextrously, this way, you will get 2 huge arms. This may be a problem however if you have a really tiny d*ck.
 
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