"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dishonesty

Quiksilver

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This one rattled me a little today.

First off, let my say that I'm a genuine nice guy. No I don't put up with sh*t, but I don't dish it out either. Not a jerk, I do tease sometimes though, and have a decent sense of humour, although I don't show it in school.


So this girl in one of my classes gets into a situation with me, and for some reason she automatically assumes I'm lying. Like, in essence she said: "blah blah blah...but you're a liar."

I was like "wtf" in my head, because i've never lied about anything in school and frankly I don't care about her or anybody else there so there isnt really a reason to lie. I'm sort of detached in school, like say somebody tells a joke in class, everybody will laugh but me..definitive lack of passion in school u could say..

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Question: What sort of behaviour/attitude/aura/whatever causes girls to think you are a liar/bad person?

later
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Shocker

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her being a biatch? I dunno, sounds like she's a biatch though...and you're thinking about what she said so it worked. lol, Listen to Dane Cook's bit in Vicious Circle about women's arguing skills.
 

nicenomore

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if she tells you you're a liar, well ask her : " Am i liar???"
if thats true , then you've spoken the truth:
if thats false , that means you're a truthful person after all

bottom line , dont let it affect you're frame...reframe every negative thing a girl says and give it back to her
 
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