"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dishonesty

Quiksilver

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This one rattled me a little today.

First off, let my say that I'm a genuine nice guy. No I don't put up with sh*t, but I don't dish it out either. Not a jerk, I do tease sometimes though, and have a decent sense of humour, although I don't show it in school.


So this girl in one of my classes gets into a situation with me, and for some reason she automatically assumes I'm lying. Like, in essence she said: "blah blah blah...but you're a liar."

I was like "wtf" in my head, because i've never lied about anything in school and frankly I don't care about her or anybody else there so there isnt really a reason to lie. I'm sort of detached in school, like say somebody tells a joke in class, everybody will laugh but me..definitive lack of passion in school u could say..

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Question: What sort of behaviour/attitude/aura/whatever causes girls to think you are a liar/bad person?

later
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Shocker

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her being a biatch? I dunno, sounds like she's a biatch though...and you're thinking about what she said so it worked. lol, Listen to Dane Cook's bit in Vicious Circle about women's arguing skills.
 

nicenomore

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if she tells you you're a liar, well ask her : " Am i liar???"
if thats true , then you've spoken the truth:
if thats false , that means you're a truthful person after all

bottom line , dont let it affect you're frame...reframe every negative thing a girl says and give it back to her
 
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