"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dishonesty

Quiksilver

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This one rattled me a little today.

First off, let my say that I'm a genuine nice guy. No I don't put up with sh*t, but I don't dish it out either. Not a jerk, I do tease sometimes though, and have a decent sense of humour, although I don't show it in school.


So this girl in one of my classes gets into a situation with me, and for some reason she automatically assumes I'm lying. Like, in essence she said: "blah blah blah...but you're a liar."

I was like "wtf" in my head, because i've never lied about anything in school and frankly I don't care about her or anybody else there so there isnt really a reason to lie. I'm sort of detached in school, like say somebody tells a joke in class, everybody will laugh but me..definitive lack of passion in school u could say..

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Question: What sort of behaviour/attitude/aura/whatever causes girls to think you are a liar/bad person?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Shocker

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her being a biatch? I dunno, sounds like she's a biatch though...and you're thinking about what she said so it worked. lol, Listen to Dane Cook's bit in Vicious Circle about women's arguing skills.
 

nicenomore

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if she tells you you're a liar, well ask her : " Am i liar???"
if thats true , then you've spoken the truth:
if thats false , that means you're a truthful person after all

bottom line , dont let it affect you're frame...reframe every negative thing a girl says and give it back to her
 
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