"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dishonesty and the game

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exwhyzee

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My roommate has a problem.

His best friends ex girlfriend is very upset, that she lost the "love of her life" my roommate is still in contact with her and she calls him 3 times a day...and they have not been dating for 3 months now.

Last weekend my roommate finally allowed her to come visit him and stay with him. He did this with out his best friend knowing.

When they were alone she went into the bathrom and came out naked and said basically we can do anything you want.

I think he got a blow job.

He is not sure what to do. Should he tell his friend or take it to the grave? I don't think dishonesty has anyplace in the game. And I advised him not to put himself in a position where he must lie.

Does dishonesty have a place in the game? Should we lie to friends to be better pua's?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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KontrollerX

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They were broken up but ex's should still be off limits to friends IMO.

Its extremely weak to go after a buddy's ex with billions of women out there to pick from.

DJ's are men of integrity. Lies, deceit, greed and mistrust have no place in their arsenal.

The roomate wanted to play so he should pay and tell the truth.

The friend is just gonna find out about it eventually anyhow as the b!tch only did it to hurt him, this situation is so transparent its rid-god-damn-iculous.
 
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betterthandead

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I seriously hope you're kidding. You can have whatever righteous path you want, but other people should do what they want and await any price that comes to them.

KontrollerX said:
DJ's are men of integrity. Lies, deceit, greed and mistrust have no place in their arsenal.
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KontrollerX

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That they can.

But such are not DJ's.
 
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