"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dishonesty and the game

exwhyzee

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My roommate has a problem.

His best friends ex girlfriend is very upset, that she lost the "love of her life" my roommate is still in contact with her and she calls him 3 times a day...and they have not been dating for 3 months now.

Last weekend my roommate finally allowed her to come visit him and stay with him. He did this with out his best friend knowing.

When they were alone she went into the bathrom and came out naked and said basically we can do anything you want.

I think he got a blow job.

He is not sure what to do. Should he tell his friend or take it to the grave? I don't think dishonesty has anyplace in the game. And I advised him not to put himself in a position where he must lie.

Does dishonesty have a place in the game? Should we lie to friends to be better pua's?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KontrollerX

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They were broken up but ex's should still be off limits to friends IMO.

Its extremely weak to go after a buddy's ex with billions of women out there to pick from.

DJ's are men of integrity. Lies, deceit, greed and mistrust have no place in their arsenal.

The roomate wanted to play so he should pay and tell the truth.

The friend is just gonna find out about it eventually anyhow as the b!tch only did it to hurt him, this situation is so transparent its rid-god-damn-iculous.
 

betterthandead

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I seriously hope you're kidding. You can have whatever righteous path you want, but other people should do what they want and await any price that comes to them.

KontrollerX said:
DJ's are men of integrity. Lies, deceit, greed and mistrust have no place in their arsenal.
 

KontrollerX

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That they can.

But such are not DJ's.
 
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