"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dishonesty and the game

exwhyzee

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My roommate has a problem.

His best friends ex girlfriend is very upset, that she lost the "love of her life" my roommate is still in contact with her and she calls him 3 times a day...and they have not been dating for 3 months now.

Last weekend my roommate finally allowed her to come visit him and stay with him. He did this with out his best friend knowing.

When they were alone she went into the bathrom and came out naked and said basically we can do anything you want.

I think he got a blow job.

He is not sure what to do. Should he tell his friend or take it to the grave? I don't think dishonesty has anyplace in the game. And I advised him not to put himself in a position where he must lie.

Does dishonesty have a place in the game? Should we lie to friends to be better pua's?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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KontrollerX

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They were broken up but ex's should still be off limits to friends IMO.

Its extremely weak to go after a buddy's ex with billions of women out there to pick from.

DJ's are men of integrity. Lies, deceit, greed and mistrust have no place in their arsenal.

The roomate wanted to play so he should pay and tell the truth.

The friend is just gonna find out about it eventually anyhow as the b!tch only did it to hurt him, this situation is so transparent its rid-god-damn-iculous.
 

betterthandead

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I seriously hope you're kidding. You can have whatever righteous path you want, but other people should do what they want and await any price that comes to them.

KontrollerX said:
DJ's are men of integrity. Lies, deceit, greed and mistrust have no place in their arsenal.
 

KontrollerX

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That they can.

But such are not DJ's.
 
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