Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FLstud83

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I've had some success on myspace in the past so for the last few days I've sent out a bunch of messages/requests to see what kind of response I would get. Being that I'm a fairly good-looking guy and have a slight personality I thought I'd be able to get a few numbers. However, apparently the humor in my profile or the messages I send aren't amusing or charming enough. I've been kind of secluded lately but just got a new job. Although it seems like a lot of girls around the metro area where I live aren't very friendly at all (Orlando). I'm beginning to think women are incredibly stupid and have horrible taste again...after I had somewhat gotten rid of my negative thinking.

I'm 24 (going on 25) and have never had a gf. Although I've gotten laid many times, some of the time with girls who didn't do it for me, I still can't seem to get into a normal relationship with a cool girl. I came close recently but with me moving, it didn't work out. So having hooked up in the past with a few good-looking women off myspace, I figured I'd try it again. Two things I know about myself are that I can be somewhat of a smooth talker and although I'm not Brad Pitt by a long shot, I'm not ugly either. I don't say very much about myself in the profile....have an interesting quote as my headline, some humor that alludes to me having the looks and charisma of movie stars, and only have a few pics. on there. I send short messages that basically say,"Hi there...how's it going? I'm intrigued by your profile. You seem like a lot of fun and look amazing in the pics. What are you up to, anything exciting?" Does anyone have any tips or insight into what I might be doing wrong. I sent out about 20 messages and got hardly any response.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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up_an_up

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well since you just moved you could send some messages out like "hi im new to orlando" and go from there. But as you said, myspace is a very hard way to meet people. Ive sent out mabye 30 messages before with about 3 responses... lol
 

jesusrules

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I underestand what your saying but really dude I wouldnt want to meet any chicks on the internet. cause i believe if you try to meet up with a chick later you might be let down. cause people arent always honest on the internet man.
I know dude its tough finding chicks that are cool, i even have a hard time finding that sometimes. but you got to keep positive. even if we want to flip out at times lol.
 

MooseGod

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I think the best thing Myspace/Facebook is good for is when you have a class or you work with a cute girl, then ask her if she's on there and add her. Good segue from the work/school dynamic to personal life. Hell, I've hooked up with tons of chicks like that, it's not creepy or desperate like messaging random people, and it keeps things on a friendly basis even if nothing romantic ever transpires.
 
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