"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FLstud83

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I've had some success on myspace in the past so for the last few days I've sent out a bunch of messages/requests to see what kind of response I would get. Being that I'm a fairly good-looking guy and have a slight personality I thought I'd be able to get a few numbers. However, apparently the humor in my profile or the messages I send aren't amusing or charming enough. I've been kind of secluded lately but just got a new job. Although it seems like a lot of girls around the metro area where I live aren't very friendly at all (Orlando). I'm beginning to think women are incredibly stupid and have horrible taste again...after I had somewhat gotten rid of my negative thinking.

I'm 24 (going on 25) and have never had a gf. Although I've gotten laid many times, some of the time with girls who didn't do it for me, I still can't seem to get into a normal relationship with a cool girl. I came close recently but with me moving, it didn't work out. So having hooked up in the past with a few good-looking women off myspace, I figured I'd try it again. Two things I know about myself are that I can be somewhat of a smooth talker and although I'm not Brad Pitt by a long shot, I'm not ugly either. I don't say very much about myself in the profile....have an interesting quote as my headline, some humor that alludes to me having the looks and charisma of movie stars, and only have a few pics. on there. I send short messages that basically say,"Hi there...how's it going? I'm intrigued by your profile. You seem like a lot of fun and look amazing in the pics. What are you up to, anything exciting?" Does anyone have any tips or insight into what I might be doing wrong. I sent out about 20 messages and got hardly any response.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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up_an_up

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well since you just moved you could send some messages out like "hi im new to orlando" and go from there. But as you said, myspace is a very hard way to meet people. Ive sent out mabye 30 messages before with about 3 responses... lol
 

jesusrules

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I underestand what your saying but really dude I wouldnt want to meet any chicks on the internet. cause i believe if you try to meet up with a chick later you might be let down. cause people arent always honest on the internet man.
I know dude its tough finding chicks that are cool, i even have a hard time finding that sometimes. but you got to keep positive. even if we want to flip out at times lol.
 

MooseGod

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I think the best thing Myspace/Facebook is good for is when you have a class or you work with a cute girl, then ask her if she's on there and add her. Good segue from the work/school dynamic to personal life. Hell, I've hooked up with tons of chicks like that, it's not creepy or desperate like messaging random people, and it keeps things on a friendly basis even if nothing romantic ever transpires.
 
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