Discussion: Who cheats more, men or women

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I vote men because hypergamy allows women to seek out men with options and the endless opportunities to cheat.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Unhappy people cheat. There are always two sides.

 

[RangerMIke]

Men cheat more than women, but the difference is marginal. Younger women cheat more than older women only slightly more than men, but once we hit 30 and above, men cheat more... but again it's only slightly higher than women. The more options a person has, the more likely they will cheat.

 

[SirBigBell]

Women have far more opportunities to cheat because of the endless supply of thirsty men, more-so now in this social media age.
Men however cheat more because they by nature are the hunters.

 

[dude99]

Women are much better liars. They are better at justifying bad behaviour and they define cheating with much different parameters and standards when it comes to themselves than how they judge the parameters and standards of men.

Because of hypergamy they are always shopping and looking up and opportunity is always landing in their lap.

Women definitely cheat more. They are just better liars and hide it better. We hear about men cheating more because of feminism shoving "men bad male toxic" agenda down our throats. Most men don't even get the chance to cheat. Only a select few do. The 3% you read about here.

If you don't believe women cheat more, mens health did a study on the amount of men that are raising kid that are biologically not theirs and they have no idea. They wives/girlfriends obviously know and their doctors know, but refuse to tell the men the child they just had, isn't his. The cases in the united states alone is in the millions.

 

[bat soup]

I vote men because hypergamy allows women to seek out men with options and the endless opportunities to cheat.

For a man it's natural to take every opportunity he gets. For women, it's more about whether the new guy is a step up.

 

[SW15]

It's still men, but only because of the older population now. @RangerMIke said 30 was the crossover age. I'd disagree with that and push that age up to 40. 30 somethings are different now with the Millennial generation.

 

[RangerMIke]

Women are much better liars. They are better at justifying bad behaviour and they define cheating with much different parameters and standards when it comes to themselves than how they judge the parameters and standards of men.

Because of hypergamy they are always shopping and looking up and opportunity is always landing in their lap.

Women definitely cheat more. They are just better liars and hide it better. We hear about men cheating more because of feminism shoving "men bad male toxic" agenda down our throats. Most men don't even get the chance to cheat. Only a select few do. The 3% you read about here.

If you don't believe women cheat more, mens health did a study on the amount of men that are raising kid that are biologically not theirs and they have no idea. They wives/girlfriends obviously know and their doctors know, but refuse to tell the men the child they just had, isn't his. The cases in the united states alone is in the millions.

Well... someone impregnated these women.

The simple truth is that women who cheat typically cheat with men that are also in relationships, mostly because they want to keep this on the downlow. If you are a woman, cheating with a man... and it's really all about just scratching an itch, then you are going to do this with a man that also wants to keep things secret... It is the secretive nature of women that this is what they do. A married man is much less likely to go around running his mouth about an affair because he has too much to lose.

Getting sex is so fvcking easy for women that it really isn't that much of a problem for them to be picky... she is going to be very careful with the man she cheats with. A married man is far less likely to be dragging in some disease and has a vested interest in keeping things secret. So if you have two married people cheating.... well.... then it's a wash right?

It is not common that a woman will cheat with a man that is single and unattached. Men. when they cheat are not as discriminating.... single... married... in a relationship... we typically don't care.

 

[Stuffnu]

Cheating for men will always be physical.
Cheating for women is usually emotional. Window shopping behind your back until they break the relationship. The good old “it’s not you - it’s me”. Then immediately jumping onto the man they have been chatting up.
That’s why it’s imperative for men to recognize the signals of a women checking out.
Yes some will during, but the stigma of being labeled a “ho” can be too strong. Then again, this behavior may be normalized over time with todays increasing empowerment of the XX chromosome.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Unhappy people cheat. There are always two sides.

greedy folks do too

 

[vingenzo]

It's simple the one who has more options cheat more