"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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eminence

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ok so i got a number from a really hot girl in my work today, and she talked about me going to the movies with her and her friends tonight...but i am currently blazed out to the point where i can barely function.

what would u say would happen if i...

1. didnt call and blew her off completely

A) raises interest levels

OR

B) donkey punches me in the face

2. i call her and go out to the movies with her and her friends

A) i completely **** it up and lose any chances because i am so high i have no idea what is going on

OR

B) probably still **** it up because i am really high

........and which option would you go with. Discuss...but do it suavely, you are sooooo suave after all.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Obsidian

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why'd you get high when you should've been calling up the girl? Thursday is the perfect night to go out.

I don't really see why you'd want her friends along, though. That might be bad.

I wouldn't call her now. Call her up on Sunday or Monday to meet with her the following night. If you plan on seeing a movie, maybe take her out to coffee beforehand. You need a chance to talk and qualify her.
 

eminence

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no i dont waste my time with that, i just have sex with them
 

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Yeah... I wouldn't call her. I would even go to the point of getting someone else to text her.

Whatever excuse you make up (NO DETAILS!!!) be sure to tell her that you want a rain check. That way she knows you're not blowing her off just for the hell of it.

Also to agree with Obsidian, never go out with a girl that's bringing friends along, unless it was planned and you're bringing a bunch of friends too. Dates should always be one on one. The only time I double date is if all 4 of us are really good friends. Things can turn ugly real quick if not.
 

Obsidian

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trust me, you won't be having any sex while you're high and her friends are around. Get your act together.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My advice is short and succinct. Quit smoking so much weed in the middle of the day in the middle of the week, especially after number closing HB and discussing plans to get together. The Game does not take breaks just because you're blazed. But since your head is fattened up already, I would just bag it. I think the negatives that may come from flaking far outweigh the potential disaster you may cause from being way too ripped. Since the movie idea was brought up somewhat last-minute, I think you can safely jettison with their understanding. All things in moderation my friend, especially herb. It's the DJ way. Good luck with whatever you do.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Whats wrong with going high?

EDIT: Yeah, having sex may give you problems getting it up. But, me personally; have no problems. :)
 
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