"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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discuss this. right now.

eminence

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ok so i got a number from a really hot girl in my work today, and she talked about me going to the movies with her and her friends tonight...but i am currently blazed out to the point where i can barely function.

what would u say would happen if i...

1. didnt call and blew her off completely

A) raises interest levels

OR

B) donkey punches me in the face

2. i call her and go out to the movies with her and her friends

A) i completely **** it up and lose any chances because i am so high i have no idea what is going on

OR

B) probably still **** it up because i am really high

........and which option would you go with. Discuss...but do it suavely, you are sooooo suave after all.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Obsidian

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why'd you get high when you should've been calling up the girl? Thursday is the perfect night to go out.

I don't really see why you'd want her friends along, though. That might be bad.

I wouldn't call her now. Call her up on Sunday or Monday to meet with her the following night. If you plan on seeing a movie, maybe take her out to coffee beforehand. You need a chance to talk and qualify her.
 

eminence

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no i dont waste my time with that, i just have sex with them
 

kdnash82

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Yeah... I wouldn't call her. I would even go to the point of getting someone else to text her.

Whatever excuse you make up (NO DETAILS!!!) be sure to tell her that you want a rain check. That way she knows you're not blowing her off just for the hell of it.

Also to agree with Obsidian, never go out with a girl that's bringing friends along, unless it was planned and you're bringing a bunch of friends too. Dates should always be one on one. The only time I double date is if all 4 of us are really good friends. Things can turn ugly real quick if not.
 

Obsidian

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trust me, you won't be having any sex while you're high and her friends are around. Get your act together.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Magma

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My advice is short and succinct. Quit smoking so much weed in the middle of the day in the middle of the week, especially after number closing HB and discussing plans to get together. The Game does not take breaks just because you're blazed. But since your head is fattened up already, I would just bag it. I think the negatives that may come from flaking far outweigh the potential disaster you may cause from being way too ripped. Since the movie idea was brought up somewhat last-minute, I think you can safely jettison with their understanding. All things in moderation my friend, especially herb. It's the DJ way. Good luck with whatever you do.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Whats wrong with going high?

EDIT: Yeah, having sex may give you problems getting it up. But, me personally; have no problems. :)
 
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