"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thanks, but I'd rather have something with a big enough jog wheel. What about the three I have listed? Which one is the best?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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your 4th bump in 28 hours... smoke a roll
 

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You gotta really tell us what you're looking for. First the budget will determine what equipment you'll be buying. Next is what kind of equipment are you looking for, 2 turntables or 2 cdj's? For mobile or for home? Is this going to be a long term hobby or are you just seeing how it is, if you think you'll be doing this for years then get the best equipment out so you save money in the long run.

Check out djforums.com and just read up there to find out what's good. Almost always there's someone in the exact same position as you with the replies already written out for you, so you don't have to wait. Much like with these forums ;)
 

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ya I've always wanted to do DJ'ing actually i want to be a master in Scratching, beat juggling, and all those other good stuff my only problem is whos going to teach me these things? i know technics are the best turntables, and vestax mixers are pretty good... any advice for that?
 

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Cheatz said:
You gotta really tell us what you're looking for. First the budget will determine what equipment you'll be buying. Next is what kind of equipment are you looking for, 2 turntables or 2 cdj's? For mobile or for home? Is this going to be a long term hobby or are you just seeing how it is, if you think you'll be doing this for years then get the best equipment out so you save money in the long run.

Check out djforums.com and just read up there to find out what's good. Almost always there's someone in the exact same position as you with the replies already written out for you, so you don't have to wait. Much like with these forums ;)

Wait, read again my question:) I didn't ask advice about "what to buy" in general... I asked "which one is better among these?"...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My personal buying guide:

If it's not Sony and it's not sold at Wal-mart, it has some quality.

I'm not a Disc Jockey, so I can't offer you much advice on which is the best system.
 
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