"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thanks, but I'd rather have something with a big enough jog wheel. What about the three I have listed? Which one is the best?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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your 4th bump in 28 hours... smoke a roll
 

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You gotta really tell us what you're looking for. First the budget will determine what equipment you'll be buying. Next is what kind of equipment are you looking for, 2 turntables or 2 cdj's? For mobile or for home? Is this going to be a long term hobby or are you just seeing how it is, if you think you'll be doing this for years then get the best equipment out so you save money in the long run.

Check out djforums.com and just read up there to find out what's good. Almost always there's someone in the exact same position as you with the replies already written out for you, so you don't have to wait. Much like with these forums ;)
 

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ya I've always wanted to do DJ'ing actually i want to be a master in Scratching, beat juggling, and all those other good stuff my only problem is whos going to teach me these things? i know technics are the best turntables, and vestax mixers are pretty good... any advice for that?
 

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Cheatz said:
You gotta really tell us what you're looking for. First the budget will determine what equipment you'll be buying. Next is what kind of equipment are you looking for, 2 turntables or 2 cdj's? For mobile or for home? Is this going to be a long term hobby or are you just seeing how it is, if you think you'll be doing this for years then get the best equipment out so you save money in the long run.

Check out djforums.com and just read up there to find out what's good. Almost always there's someone in the exact same position as you with the replies already written out for you, so you don't have to wait. Much like with these forums ;)

Wait, read again my question:) I didn't ask advice about "what to buy" in general... I asked "which one is better among these?"...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My personal buying guide:

If it's not Sony and it's not sold at Wal-mart, it has some quality.

I'm not a Disc Jockey, so I can't offer you much advice on which is the best system.
 
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