"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Disappointed, been slipping - new rules for myself

TheGambino

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I'm not going to play myself from today on.

I been going to a pokergame for a week now and i'm no 3K loss. I can miss it but it's a lot of money. Been also smoking a lot of hookah since then and my fitness and work regime are bad and slipping now.

As a man I make new hard appointments with myself from 17-8.

- No pokergames, deleted all numbers.
- No hookah
- Back to fitness/work schedule forget this week --> NEW DAY.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Good to notice that changes need to be made. That’s over half the battle there. But if you enjoy poker as a social thing I wouldn’t cut it out but cut down. Now if you think it’s more of an addiction and your loosing money and can’t control it then yeah time to quit. I used to play some back room poker and it was fun times I really miss it.
 

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You can try soccer bets. There are programs out there, usually as excel spread sheets, which let you guess an outcome. Usually you can find them for free if you look good enough. Basically, it's fun. I put minimum on a game and stay afloat. Then when you play often club will give you free bets. I got a free bet for $20 yesterday, when my usual bet is about 50 cents. It's fun and exciting. You develop strategies and keep your balance somewhere around what you put in originally, I never put more than $2 and that $2 can last me a month.
 

Solomon

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I'm not going to play myself from today on.

I been going to a pokergame for a week now and i'm no 3K loss. I can miss it but it's a lot of money. Been also smoking a lot of hookah since then and my fitness and work regime are bad and slipping now.

As a man I make new hard appointments with myself from 17-8.

- No pokergames, deleted all numbers.
- No hookah
- Back to fitness/work schedule forget this week --> NEW DAY.
Brother with this Covid thing it's so easy to slip, trust me I know
Kudos on you for recognizing this and working on it!
 

Alvafe

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well one rule I have for myself is never bet, so if you like poker find one who you don't have to spend money and just to have fun?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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