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Hey guys

I'm not that experienced with women despite my age ( 38 ) but i'm naturally dominating in bed. I'm naturally good with words but my lack of experience is something that's bothering me...

I have a plate and we had sex 6 times...first time i wasnt that good but she still came twice ( fingering and licking). I've been better each time we've met and i got her to call me master.she loves these kind of games and so do i..in fact she said i'm the first guy she submitted to.

i'm looking for your experience and advice on how to get better with dirty talk ,tieing her up...
Do any of you have any examples what worked for you with these kind of women?
 

His airness

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What in the Bee Dee S M is going on here?
Haha whats going on is i'm looking for tips from more experienced posters...to improve myself
I would like to hear actuall things you guys tried in bed that worked very well
 

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I would like to hear actuall things you guys tried in bed that worked very well
My former fling was into some bondage. Though I didn't have to open her mind to it. She was already into it. She had wrist straps, collar and leash. I used her straps that were anchored to dog leashes on her bed. I put her legs around her anchored arms to hold her legs open. Used her collar and leash while her arms were handcuffed behind her back doggy style yanking on the leash pulling her head back.
 

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I tend to dominance - almost every “strong” woman is into it, especially the particularly difficult ones. I tend to dominate with my body though, the ability to pin and toss around and position a woman into a pretzel is key. Not particularly into gadgets- tends to be a novel experience for most and that’s what keeps them coming…back.

I tend to suggest and plant ideas, their minds do the heavy lifting.
 

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Honestly, practice makes perfect. As much as you have feelings for this chick, she is probably not gonna be the last chick you have sex with. Use her as a learning tool. **** her as much as you can and get your practice in. Also experiment with other girls. Every body is different. But once you become "skilled", it doesn't take long to figure them out. Usually after 2-3 hook ups, I can make a girl *** quite fast. With my ex gf, I could eat her ***** and make her squirt in under 2 minutes. It just takes practice. Porn *might* help a little bit.. but it's honestly just practice. Also don't be afraid to ask her questions about what she likes and what gets her off. Most females will guide you and help you out, they won't use it against you.. they'll be appreciative of it and it makes them feel like you care about getting them off and not being selfish and only in your self interest.
 

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Hey guys

I'm not that experienced with women despite my age ( 38 ) but i'm naturally dominating in bed. I'm naturally good with words but my lack of experience is something that's bothering me...

I have a plate and we had sex 6 times...first time i wasnt that good but she still came twice ( fingering and licking). I've been better each time we've met and i got her to call me master.she loves these kind of games and so do i..in fact she said i'm the first guy she submitted to.

i'm looking for your experience and advice on how to get better with dirty talk ,tieing her up...
Do any of you have any examples what worked for you with these kind of women?
Never done the master slave/daddy thing but I fvck the hell out of them...

I love talking sh!t to them saying things like
"I want you to cvm on this big c0ck" or "you are just going to have to take it" as I pound them relentlessly and they are nearing the tap out point.

I talk a lot to them and almost all of them have told me they find it so hot when I do...

It's also amazing how many will simply let you just stick in their ass without you saying a word just by rubbing it on their hole and then trying to put it in...

And how many times they told me they were turned on in texts when I told them if they kept going with whatever they were talking about(like teasing me or whatever about something) that I would make sure to punish them by sticking it their wrong hole.

A few times I had them so hot from that they asked me to immediately fvck their ass when they saw me next time because they had been thinking about it so much.

Honestly most women are freaks. You don't need to do much other than embrace it and make them feel safe to let it out around you.

After you are done one night and laying there just start asking her what else she likes and what her biggest fantasy is...she will probably give you so much you can use it will blow your mind
 
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Hey guys

I'm not that experienced with women despite my age ( 38 ) but i'm naturally dominating in bed. I'm naturally good with words but my lack of experience is something that's bothering me...

I have a plate and we had sex 6 times...first time i wasnt that good but she still came twice ( fingering and licking). I've been better each time we've met and i got her to call me master.she loves these kind of games and so do i..in fact she said i'm the first guy she submitted to.

i'm looking for your experience and advice on how to get better with dirty talk ,tieing her up...
Do any of you have any examples what worked for you with these kind of women?
When it comes to dirty talk don't forget to mention the dishes. You can also mention other dirty things around the house such as your underwear full of skid marks. That gets them in the mood.
 
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