"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've always thought this was important but understanding about how to to this to your advantage is tricky for some guys. Doing this right is like directing traffic and it helps if you don't have any wrecks, slowing down progress, to make ahead for yourself. Mind you, some people need to work up to this because you're stupid and probobly don't know it. I'm sorry but that's just how it is, I'd like for there to be some sugar coated explination as to why you act the way you do, but there isn't. You think you're okay acting the way you do and progress your way through interactions by banging your way through and if that's how you want to do things, that's fine ofcourse but you should probobly stop reading this now because it doesn't benifit your mentality nor will you be able to implement it correctly.

Okay now to the heart of the matter, for those who are still here. Girls talk a lot, which I'm sure you know. Alot of the stuff you can ignore becuse you don't care and it's mindless dribble anyway that holds no value. However, they can be manipulated into saying what you're interested in knowing. Their history, their age, there status with men, how many partners they've had, where they want to go, their mindset for the present, how many children they have etc etc. And you can do this in a positive way that's as quick and effective as the direct route for each of said questions. Although being direct and getting right to the point is a strong sign of dominace, it's very often preferable to get women to volunarily give up the same information under their terms via your influence. I say this because learning to direct conversations through a gentle hand can lead you do directing actions via the same knowledge without force which can be met with resistance, which leads to your stress and pain.

So how's this done? Simple, you make them do all the work. Again women love to talk and if they don't detect an advance then they'll give up their social security number if led down that path. All you have to do is ask the right questions to get the awnsers you're looking for and a little convo filler about yourself or something else in general to hold their intrest. From that point onward they'll spill their guts about everything becaue they don't feel forced into doing this. The questions you ask should start off with your own logic. Use the elements you see before you. Don't just look at her face and body. Look at the details of her clothing, or hair cut, or for any visible tatoos, something that stands out that you can form into a question. Ask questions about how long she's been in town, what she does for work, how long she's been in said profession. You also want to listen to the awnsers to these questions. If you can find one or two things per response that you can build more questions off of and re direct towards topic you're interested in, note them down and try to touch on them when you get a chance. Obviously how you handle yourself is invovled. Basic confidence is a plus but what it really boils down to is your ability to keep up with the speed of conversation and your intellegance. If you can keep track of what's being said reltatively well, then you should be able to sail through a 30 minute conversation and know as much about the girl as you need to qualify her or dis qualify her for gaming.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Excellent post. :up:
 

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It's just as much about what you ask as how your sending presenting the issue. You're asking questions about then that may seem routine but it's how and when you present the issue that will get you where you want to go. No matter the girl you're talking to, she likes and often wants to talk about herself and her thoughts. So facilitating this by taking in observations and tactically asking questions about these questions, digging for a deeper level is what you want to do if you're trying to find out questions about the girl herself. Often questions about society and politics, fashion, and things other then her and you will get you off track if you're looking for specific awnsers. Saying things about yourself and generalizations about other things where what i was refering too when I was talking about converstion filler. Ultimately though you're engaged in the conversation for the purpose of your benefit. You're trying to get information from the girl. Noting what you said about a job interview is exactly what I'm talking about. Also this isn't really "flirting advice" This thread was made pretty much for the sake of information gathering helping you to decide if you want to game a girl at all. I like how you defined it, you're interviewing them but you're masking it so it doesn't seem like an interview for her. You're trying to gather information with out the informant knowing she's giving it up.

Which leads me to another point. You can do this for girls friends as well. If you're looking for honest information concerning another girl, you can subsitute her for some of the conversation filler and more likely then not girls will blab on an on about another girl when given that gentle push in that direction.
 

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Yep I like this one too.

Intermediate Material for sure.
 
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