PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I've always thought this was important but understanding about how to to this to your advantage is tricky for some guys. Doing this right is like directing traffic and it helps if you don't have any wrecks, slowing down progress, to make ahead for yourself. Mind you, some people need to work up to this because you're stupid and probobly don't know it. I'm sorry but that's just how it is, I'd like for there to be some sugar coated explination as to why you act the way you do, but there isn't. You think you're okay acting the way you do and progress your way through interactions by banging your way through and if that's how you want to do things, that's fine ofcourse but you should probobly stop reading this now because it doesn't benifit your mentality nor will you be able to implement it correctly.
Okay now to the heart of the matter, for those who are still here. Girls talk a lot, which I'm sure you know. Alot of the stuff you can ignore becuse you don't care and it's mindless dribble anyway that holds no value. However, they can be manipulated into saying what you're interested in knowing. Their history, their age, there status with men, how many partners they've had, where they want to go, their mindset for the present, how many children they have etc etc. And you can do this in a positive way that's as quick and effective as the direct route for each of said questions. Although being direct and getting right to the point is a strong sign of dominace, it's very often preferable to get women to volunarily give up the same information under their terms via your influence. I say this because learning to direct conversations through a gentle hand can lead you do directing actions via the same knowledge without force which can be met with resistance, which leads to your stress and pain.
So how's this done? Simple, you make them do all the work. Again women love to talk and if they don't detect an advance then they'll give up their social security number if led down that path. All you have to do is ask the right questions to get the awnsers you're looking for and a little convo filler about yourself or something else in general to hold their intrest. From that point onward they'll spill their guts about everything becaue they don't feel forced into doing this. The questions you ask should start off with your own logic. Use the elements you see before you. Don't just look at her face and body. Look at the details of her clothing, or hair cut, or for any visible tatoos, something that stands out that you can form into a question. Ask questions about how long she's been in town, what she does for work, how long she's been in said profession. You also want to listen to the awnsers to these questions. If you can find one or two things per response that you can build more questions off of and re direct towards topic you're interested in, note them down and try to touch on them when you get a chance. Obviously how you handle yourself is invovled. Basic confidence is a plus but what it really boils down to is your ability to keep up with the speed of conversation and your intellegance. If you can keep track of what's being said reltatively well, then you should be able to sail through a 30 minute conversation and know as much about the girl as you need to qualify her or dis qualify her for gaming.
Okay now to the heart of the matter, for those who are still here. Girls talk a lot, which I'm sure you know. Alot of the stuff you can ignore becuse you don't care and it's mindless dribble anyway that holds no value. However, they can be manipulated into saying what you're interested in knowing. Their history, their age, there status with men, how many partners they've had, where they want to go, their mindset for the present, how many children they have etc etc. And you can do this in a positive way that's as quick and effective as the direct route for each of said questions. Although being direct and getting right to the point is a strong sign of dominace, it's very often preferable to get women to volunarily give up the same information under their terms via your influence. I say this because learning to direct conversations through a gentle hand can lead you do directing actions via the same knowledge without force which can be met with resistance, which leads to your stress and pain.
So how's this done? Simple, you make them do all the work. Again women love to talk and if they don't detect an advance then they'll give up their social security number if led down that path. All you have to do is ask the right questions to get the awnsers you're looking for and a little convo filler about yourself or something else in general to hold their intrest. From that point onward they'll spill their guts about everything becaue they don't feel forced into doing this. The questions you ask should start off with your own logic. Use the elements you see before you. Don't just look at her face and body. Look at the details of her clothing, or hair cut, or for any visible tatoos, something that stands out that you can form into a question. Ask questions about how long she's been in town, what she does for work, how long she's been in said profession. You also want to listen to the awnsers to these questions. If you can find one or two things per response that you can build more questions off of and re direct towards topic you're interested in, note them down and try to touch on them when you get a chance. Obviously how you handle yourself is invovled. Basic confidence is a plus but what it really boils down to is your ability to keep up with the speed of conversation and your intellegance. If you can keep track of what's being said reltatively well, then you should be able to sail through a 30 minute conversation and know as much about the girl as you need to qualify her or dis qualify her for gaming.
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