"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Direct dating coach David X dies age 68

Guitar_Whizz

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Anyone who is into the direct approach will remember the legendary dating coach David X, who was also featured in the book 'The Game'. The man was a legend of seduction, having slept with over 500 women before eventually settling down and getting married.

I'm sad to say he passed away a few weeks ago, and here is the official announcement and tribute from his friend Alan Roger Currie:


As a summary of his dating philosophy, he believed in being direct with woman, being a real man and not using any PUA style tricks or gimmicks nor beating around the bush with indirect.

He taught that the foundation for any successful relationship is honesty, trust and respect.

He also had 2 simple rules which sum up his philosophy:

1) Don't concern yourself with what a woman says or thinks.

2) You're the most important person in the relationship.

I'm sad to hear he passed away. I learned so much from him and prefer his philosophy to the gimmicky, indirect PUA stuff out there. I'd definitely recommend people here check his stuff out.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone who is into the direct approach will remember the legendary dating coach David X, who was also featured in the book 'The Game'. The man was a legend of seduction, having slept with over 500 women before eventually settling down and getting married.

I'm sad to say he passed away a few weeks ago, and here is the official announcement and tribute from his friend Alan Roger Currie:


As a summary of his dating philosophy, he believed in being direct with woman, being a real man and not using any PUA style tricks or gimmicks nor beating around the bush with indirect.

He taught that the foundation for any successful relationship is honesty, trust and respect.

He also had 2 simple rules which sum up his philosophy:

1) Don't concern yourself with what a woman says or thinks.

2) You're the most important person in the relationship.

I'm sad to hear he passed away. I learned so much from him and prefer his philosophy to the gimmicky, indirect PUA stuff out there. I'd definitely recommend people here check his stuff out.

Those tenets are gold. Fellas need to listen to the OG.
 
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