"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Direct Approaching in the UK - harder than in the USA?

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I think direct approaches get a lot more rejections on UK girls than they do on US girls. People are a lot more reserved and closed off over here in England, and from my experiences of doing direct game, all I've got is point blank rejections. It really f*king sucks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I know what you mean. This idea of chatting to women in clothes shops or book shops etc is not easy in the UK. If I were to smile at a girl at a bus stop she would probably think I was a creep. We are more reserved and on the whole don't want the attention, maybe because we are so busy with our own lives and in a damm hurry.
 
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i've never been to the states but i think it would be difficult to pick up a chick in a supermarket or bookshop or whatever in england. maybe thats why we're always at the pub.....
 
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yes you are right, that's why we're always in the pub!. Also
I don't know what you think, but I can't get may act together during the day to chat the women up. I'm always busy, feeling tired or its chucking it down with rain and I can't get into the mood. In the pub my minds off work and I'm more relaxed. I guess I'm just lazy.
 
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