Direct Approaching in the UK - harder than in the USA?

[Guitar_Whizz]

I think direct approaches get a lot more rejections on UK girls than they do on US girls. People are a lot more reserved and closed off over here in England, and from my experiences of doing direct game, all I've got is point blank rejections. It really f*king sucks.

 

[Jeremymichael]

I know what you mean. This idea of chatting to women in clothes shops or book shops etc is not easy in the UK. If I were to smile at a girl at a bus stop she would probably think I was a creep. We are more reserved and on the whole don't want the attention, maybe because we are so busy with our own lives and in a damm hurry.

 

[juice veteran]

i've never been to the states but i think it would be difficult to pick up a chick in a supermarket or bookshop or whatever in england. maybe thats why we're always at the pub.....

 

[Jeremymichael]

yes you are right, that's why we're always in the pub!. Also
I don't know what you think, but I can't get may act together during the day to chat the women up. I'm always busy, feeling tired or its chucking it down with rain and I can't get into the mood. In the pub my minds off work and I'm more relaxed. I guess I'm just lazy.