"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Dire situation!!! Totally lost Homecoming

lxrjoe

New Member
Joined
Sep 17, 2006
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
A friend who is a girl (from another school) invited me to her homecoming. She is not good looking and i would never consider going out with her but she's cool as a friend. Anyways, i have never been to a dance before in my life!!! (because I was quite antisocial
Ive been to one football game before and danced a little there. it was ok but i dunno if i looked like a retard or not but i was prolly OK. Well, what do I do? I know i should dress semi-formal and ive got that covered. It is gonna be an awesome opportunity to meet new people but i dont know jack **** about dancing? what kind of dancing goes on at school dances? Is there gonna be slow dancing? Is it gonna be hip-hop? I definitely dont wanna be grinding against my friend and giving her the wrong idea. Also, what goes on there at dances? What else should i learn to do at the dances besides dancing? Please help me and give me some tips!! Thanks everyone!

PS. I will be wearing jeans with some good shoes (sneakers as a last resort if i dont buy any good ones soon) and a nice colored long sleeve shirt (the kind you see people at clubs wearing)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

we all eat food

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 14, 2005
Messages
269
Reaction score
1
Age
37
usually its like hip hop and trance/house music. Usually people grind with each other and **** like that
 

lxrjoe

New Member
Joined
Sep 17, 2006
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
is there any slow dancing at all, and what kind if there is? is there anything else i should know about besides the dancing? I know that some people chill and talk to each other at the place where the food is but is that where all teh nerds are?
Thanks "we all eat food" for the advice and i would greatly appreciate any other tips from anyone else.
 

we all eat food

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 14, 2005
Messages
269
Reaction score
1
Age
37
why would u wanna talk to the nerds, and no thers usually no slow dancing. Just have fun, and be friendly and open to people. Take chances!!!
 

BBX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 7, 2006
Messages
556
Reaction score
6
Location
los angles, calli
theres usally a quick slow dance. oh and research some grinding moves and sh.t, u dont wanna look stupid. one girl i danced with felt like we were having rabbit sex:confused:. do research!!!!, unlike me
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Raikojo17

Banned
Joined
Oct 22, 2006
Messages
982
Reaction score
5
there are some slowdances. my homecoming had alot of slow dances, but more hiphop or fast songs. but it's not that hard, jus do wat u see other people doing. and slow dancing is just swayin from side to side,nothin fancy it has always worked for me, cause i cant dance for ****,lol. and remember, u dont have to come up in there like micheal jackson or ciarra. dancin is just moving to the music, u dont have to be fancy.
 

Alex_1987

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 24, 2006
Messages
36
Reaction score
0
I sucked at dancing to, the thing is the guy doesn't dance, you act more as a pole while they grind against you.
 
Top